You know those TV shows where a little devil and a little angel sits on the shoulder of the character and whispers into his ears, giving him bits of advice as to what he should do? I wish I could turn back the years and be that little person whispering into my own ears. A 32 year old woman whispering directions into my 10 year old ears, telling her what to expect, how to react. I would give anything to have just one conversation with my 10 year old self. What would I tell her?
You have a terrible memory….start keeping a journal now!
You are going to be dealing with zits for a long time. Get over it.
You are not going to be the first woman president, but you will be something even more important!
Jesus Christ should be the most important man in your life. (You will meet Him in your early twenties.)
Real friends aren’t the ones in the “cool” crowd. They are the ones who help you wash your shorts out in the girls bathroom in junior high.
That cute guy in your 8th grade study hall. Yep, the one with the perfectly coiffed mullet. You are going to marry him!
Keep saying NO. You will be proud of that choice later.
Do not get that perm, dye your hair red or cut it that short. It is seriously ugly.
You can’t control other people. They will pretty much do what they want to. And this has nothing to do with you. Don’t concern yourself with other people’s idiotic choices and actions.
High school will pass quickly and then you will never have to see those people again. Until the invention of Facebook that is.
Negative words almost always come back to haunt you. Never say never!
Think negatively/condemning about someone/something and you probably will do, say or act that very way later on.
People are too easily offended. Watch your words.
In fact, it is far better to keep your mouth shut more than it is open.
But others often say dumb things. Let it go in one ear and out the other.
Don’t worry so much about other people and what they are doing or saying. Keep your eyes on yourself.
Breathe deeply and smell often. You will miss both one day.
Just say no to the vasectomy.
Infertility is rough, heart-breaking and will make you feel like no one cares.
Infertility is rough, heart-breaking and will make you feel like no one cares. (It was worth repeating.)
Adoption is awesome, fulfilling and God’s plan for you. Give it a try.
Be proud of your husband’s career. Cheer him on and encourage him. Don’t make him into something that he doesn’t want to be. Be his #1 fan!!
Don’t worry about asking why? You will never know the answer and it won’t help you feel any better anyway.
Don’t throw away your blue jeans!
Live today and enjoy now….quit thinking about yesterday and tomorrow.
Panties are cheap. Just toss them.
Above advice works for potty training toddlers too.
Keep your eyes open…if you blink you might miss something.
Life is short. Life is precious. Only do what matters. Housework does not matter.
The babies DO matter. Spend more time with those babies!!
Don’t compare your “insides” to everyone else’s “outsides.”
There is no perfect Christian. Follow God and His leading. Quit looking around at what everyone else is doing or not doing.
Thank you God for 32 wonderful, awe-inspiring, jaw dropping, beautiful years...............